My first solo was at the main airport in Fairbanks many moons ago. There was no one in the pattern and then a 737 shows up and they order me into a go around to get out of his way. I was a wreck by the time I got that plane on the ground!
Stress is certainly a factor that leads to mistakes, you witnessed it first hand. I learned at a towered airport also, and got issued a short approach on my first solo landing. I think those devils in the tower were bored and did it to see just what would happen.
Usually the wrong airport thing happens on a clear night on a visual approach. Your senses can do funny things, especially in a jet doing 200kts. In a lot of places, airports have similar layouts due to terrain, prevailing winds, or some other circumstances or coincidence. Add a little stress to that, maybe a captain and first officer don’t fly well together, tired, unfamiliar, inexperienced, whatever.
My one and so far only was landing at airport with the same runway orientation after a long cross country to an unfamiliar very rural desert area with very little time under my belt. Before the days of GPS and below/out of range of the VOR stations. My passengers had been there before and it looked right to them, so indecision/passenger pressure can also be added to the list. Yes I had a sectional, and I was totally screwed up. Certainly wasn’t an unsafe thing, it was a great landing. Kind of embarrassing to ask the FBO where I was though. Hahaha. He said I wasn’t the first
. The cowboys in the back thought it was funny as Hell. We still had 30 miles to go.