Simple. Be friendly and easy going. Everybody will want to go hunting with you.
When I hunted in Tanzania in 1978, we had a South Carolina gentleman in camp by the name of Dave Bourban. He had a tattoo of the American confederate flag on each of his forearms and spoke with a strong Southern accent. If modern leftist tabloid journalists took just one look at the man, then they would immediately declare him to be the stereotypical racist. In reality, I found Dave to be anything but. He was a true gent in every sense of the word. Extremely friendly with me, our white hunters and even the trackers and coolies. He had brought along 2 rifles on Safari: a custom made .375 Holland & Holland Magnum built on a Remington Model 30 Express action and a Belgium made boxlock ejector double rifle in .458 Winchester Magnum (a guild gun). During one of our evening campfire chats after a long day of hunting eland, I casually mentioned to him that I had always dreamt of hunting dangerous game in Africa with a double rifle someday. Dave immediately told me “Habib, I’ll be mighty pleased if you bag your Cape buffalo with my .458 double. Don’t worry about me. I can get by with my .375 bolt gun just fine for the rest of my Safari. “ I was greatly taken aback by Dave’s kindness. I did succeed in securing a huge Cape buffalo with Dave’s double rifle on that very safari, and thus my dream of being able to pursue dangerous game with a double rifle was fulfilled.
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Dave & I became best friends for life and he was like a brother to me. We went together on many safaris and international hunting expeditions over the years. Whenever we used to go on safari to South Africa, he would always treat me at Wimpy (my favorite fast food outlet in RSA).
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Unfortunately, he succumbed to the Chinese Virus during the pandemic of 2020. He was the epitome of “Southern Gentleman“ and I miss him greatly. In his entire life, I never saw Dave mistreat a single person. He would give you the shirt off his back, if he saw that you didn’t have one.
His son, Lester is also an avid hunter and he & I have gone on two safaris together as well. I stay at his family home whenever I visit South Carolina. I have another safari planned with him in 2025 to Zambia. He has inherited his father’s affable nature.
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