Well i believe my search on this forum has come to an end. Ridiculous at the scams. Two members provided me with the same shipping address. I already send a check, so I just paid usps $18 to redirect the shipment. One member claims they are roommates and the other denys it and has no concern that someone is using "his" mailing brass. A third guy reached out to me with brass asking about paypal, which im fine with. He was weird regarding his email to receive the money then turned into an a$$hole once i said i was lerry due to my previous incident with the 2 members with the same address.
At this point im done. Wasted all day trying to figure out about the two guys shacking up. On top of that, none of them showed concern during the conversations. I have screen shots if moderators need it, but this is ridiculous. I am on so many forums and never been scammed or attempted scammed this many times. Sorry for the rant.