On the education topic: at the risk of splitting hairs and/or engaging in semantics…
Because of how I was raised, I’ve always seen being educated and being trained for a job as two totally different things. You can absolutely be both. I have a Chemical Engineering degree for which I worked my butt almost completely off. But my parents, both Ivy League-educated professionals with advanced degrees, made it clear: that degree made me employable, but “educated”? Not quite.
They actually said that. They didn’t consider just a Chemical Engineering degree as being truly “educated.” If you’ve ever tried having a real conversation with an engineer who can’t string together a clear sentence, you probably get where they were coming from.
In their minds, being educated meant majoring in the liberal arts — then going on to get a graduate degree in something STEM-related to be employable. Or the other way around. That’s what they both did. My dad even joked that I could major in liberal arts and skip the advanced technical degree altogether… if I married rich.
That said, my engineering degree did exactly what it was supposed to do: it enabled me to support myself, become quite successful and retire early. Along the way, I was able to take classes, study whatever I wanted, and even fund the arts. So maybe I’ve earned a bit of that “educated” label — even if I don’t have a degree hanging on the wall to prove it.