I think mental illness is probably one of the biggest issues in the US military. Not depression or PTSD related stuff, just straight up weird behavioral issues. At a place I was employed at a little over a year ago I was a supervisor and had under me a younger guy, about 23 years old, who had recently left the Army. He was a tanker, had an honorable discharge, was a sharp and fit dude, no issues at the place we worked at. If I had to guess I'd say he was probably a fine soldier. He got out as a Corporal. He told me he didn't actually want to leave the Army, he wanted to be a soldier his whole life, his Dad was a soldier, grandpa was too. He explained to me his reasoning for leaving the Army and mostly what it boiled down to was he was just tired of being around what I can only describe as general degenerate behavior and just overall odd personalities. Essentially, he decided that potentially being involved in a serious war with the people he served alongside gave him little to no confidence.
Everyone who served can attest that there were usually a couple oddballs in any unit, we're humans, and a lot of times it's not really a big deal. But when he described to me how his Platoon Sergeant was basically an open "Furry", I almost didn't believe him. He had no reason to lie though, and I'd worked with him long enough to know he was an honest guy. It was hard for him (or anyone) to take this guy seriously, let alone look to him for mentorship. He told me of having a female crew member who couldn't lift tank rounds, or really do anything in the tank. I could go on but you get the idea.
While I think there's almost certainly a lot of "back in my day" stuff going on, things like gender integrated basic training don't seem to make much sense to even younger guys like myself. These things may seem subtle, but I believe being in an open squadbay with your entire platoon for the duration of basic training forces a sense of cohesion and conformity that lends itself to an increase in lethality. Leaders emerge more naturally, people are forced to break their own bad habits because they're on display in front of everyone else. You form a bond that I just don't see happening when you aren't living alongside every member, so it's impossible to replicate with males and females in the same basic training platoon because they aren't going to be bunking together. The Marine Corps was the last service to integrate genders at basic training and I think it's a mistake to do so.
I left active duty in 2017, and being in a SOF unit you get sort of isolated from a lot of what goes on in the rest of the military. After leaving I did some contract work overseas, working alongside various units in different capacities. I believe that in our general forces there are serious issues with things like porn addiction, weird obsessions with things like anime and video games, and I'm not a Doctor but I'd be interested to see how many service members are suffering from manic depression (again, not combat related) or something similar. I think this kind of stuff has the potential to affect the lethality and capability of a unit far more than lowering the standard on a 3 mile run time by a couple minutes. It's harder to address though.
I'm with you though, I think a lot of this says more about our culture as a nation, and less about the military itself. However, I think the military could do a better job in some ways of being that arbiter of the standard that we all want it to be. I think it's going to take some unorthodox approaches as well as admitting some truths that would perhaps make people a little uncomfortable. I also think that where we
can enforce a standard, we should, and when people who are supposed to be holding a standard give warning that a standard is not being upheld they should be given a fair shake. I wasn't there and I don't know anyone involved, so I don't know the whole story, but some guys over at SFQC penned such a letter back in 2017
https://sofrep.com/news/careerism-c...warfare-center-end-special-forces-capability/
I would imagine similar letters of concern have ended up with people such as Pete Hegseth and others in his circle.
Perhaps we're at a point in time where we take a look at how the military itself is structured, maybe something like the opposite of the McNamara's 100,000, where instead of low-IQ troops supplemented with tech, we use high IQ troops supplemented with Tech. Maybe we look at increasing the standards across the board (to include MEPS), but also increasing the pay. Maybe we change how the rank structure works. The Marine Corps has implemented something called the Talent Acquisition program where you can skip a bunch of rank upon entry in certain MOS fields, does a guy with advanced degrees and certifications in tech really need to be a PFC? Or can we just pin E6 on him and send him to a SIGINT position where him and 4 guys are going to sit in a room and code all day? Maybe we look at letting troops waive promotion in rank and have to take on more responsibility that maybe they aren't ready for, but still allow them to get a small pay raise. Is there a guy out there who is a shit hot mortar section leader who just wants to do that for 20 years? Probably so, why not let him do it? I'm sure plenty of Infantry Platoon and Company Commanders would love to stay at that level, just like I'm pretty sure there's plenty of E-5s out there who would love the opportunity to become that platoon commander, and realistically are fit for the job, but don't have a degree. Why can't that guy go through a board, and then to the Infantry Officer Course and pin on Lt?
I don't think our military has gone "woke", but I'm also not going to pretend like it's all perfect and beyond reproach. I think in some ways standards have dropped in some areas, and been raised in others. It's not as bad as people think in some areas, but there's a likelihood it's worse than people think in some areas as well.